My friend, Phil, passed on last week. I attended his funeral service. During the service I was especially struck by the words of the Rabbi and by Phil’s cousin.
First, his cousin, who was like a brother, mentioned that Phil lived and died well.
In reference to dying well, Phil had returned home from the hospital, choosing to enter hospice care, and letting go of any further involved medical interventions.
He made the most of his remaining time by spending time with friends and family and it was an uplifting time.
His cousin mentioned that they talked about the days they had played basketball together and the funny stories they had about their coach.
Personally, during Phil’s last days he left a message on my phone that made me smile.
His cousin cited many of Phil’s attributes and his approach toward the end of his life.
The Rabbi emphasized how the gift of God that came through Phil was loving kindness.
As well as the Rabbi, Phil’s cousin and his son all emphasized the many qualities he possessed such as a generosity of spirit, a wonderful sense of humor, strength, stability, and orderliness.
The Rabbi cited that God in essence designs each of us to provide a gift into this world.
A gift of life expression that essentially blesses the world.
Time passes quickly and as I age in years, I often think we’re here for a short-term assignment.
Let’s make the most of our lives and let our example be the one that uplifts and blesses those in our field.
For Our Greater Well-Being,
Dr. Steve
